Menu for March 25 – 31


Monday:  General Tso’s Chicken with fried rice

Tuesday:  Ham & Bows

Wednesday:  Salmon and asparagus (Can you tell I’m home alone that night?  Two things DH won’t eat!)

Thursday:  Buffalo Chicken Meatloaf with baby carrots and celery

Friday:  Dinner with family

Saturday Lunch:  Ham and Cheese sandwiches

Saturday Dinner:  Out to eat?  Not sure on this one yet.

Sunday:  Dinner with family.





Taking Care of Me – Exercise

You know those things that you know you’re supposed to do.. and you know why you’re supposed to do them.. but you still don’t?  For some it’s flossing.  For some it’s eating vegetables.  For me, it’s exercise.

Taking care of my family requires that I first take care of myself.  For the first few months of the year, I focused on taking care of myself spiritually.  I joined a Hello Mornings group and started reading my Bible (almost) every morning.  It’s a habit that everyone should try.  I know, mornings aren’t prime-time for most people, but starting the day off in the Word put everything in a different perspective.

1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (NLT) says, “19 Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself, 20 for God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body.”

Now, I need to focus on taking care of myself physically. God gave me this body, and I need to take care of it.  Especially because I need to be healthy to be able to take care of these beautiful children He has blessed me with!

I have been so tired since I had Raegan.

I got to the point that I would pile things at the bottom of the staircase to take up in one trip before bed, because going up more often than that was too much effort.

If I forgot my office keys in my car at work, and I realized half-way to my office, half-way was too far to turn around walk the “whole way” back to my car.

When Raegan started sleeping through the night and I was still exhausted, I couldn’t use the “newborn” excuse anymore.

I am just fat and tired.

“You’re not fat!”  That’s so nice of you, but I am.  I am not healthy.  I am overweight.  And, telling me that I’m not fat is not good for my health.

“But you just had a baby!”  I know.  But she’s 9 months old now and I lost all of my “baby weight” in the first 3 weeks.  This is what I weighed before I got pregnant.

According to my BMI, I was just bordering on obesity before I really started to watch what I eat.  A BMI of 30 constitutes obesity, and mine was 28.6.  I struggled with gestational diabetes during my pregnancy as a result of my weight, and I only have a brief time period to get myself together before I’m at very high risk for Type 2 diabetes.

And, I know that.  I know the facts.  I know the solution.  I just don’t do it.  I make excuses.

I’m too tired.  I’m okay with my appearance.  My husband loves me no matter what I look like.  I don’t want to buy new clothes.  I can’t afford to buy new clothes!!!

Enough already.  I’m focused and determined to get myself back down to a healthy weight.


My Current Exercise Plan

Couch-to-5k (with and without the jogging stroller) at least 3 times a week

Nike Training Club “Slim Chance” Workout at least 3 times a week

I’ve wanted to do the Couch-to-5K program for years.  Yes, years.  But, I always had an excuse to put it off.  Not anymore!  I am done with week 1 and starting week 2!  By the end of “week 1”, I was bored with the intervals and started running longer than the prescribed time.


I have more energy.  Exercise gives you energy.  I always forget that until I start to exercise again.  🙂




Sleeping Through The Night


Landon slept in my bed until he was four.  I didn’t mind.  It was easier to nurse at night when we coslept…and I just got used to him being there.  He always had his own bed and he knew that.  When we moved to this house, he started sleeping in his own bed.  I think it was the excitement of his new room.  But nonetheless he slept next to me for a very long time.

Raegan is very different from her brother.  Raegan gets very restless around bedtime.  She will throw herself around, screech, pinch me, nurse, not nurse, clean off the headboard…


I was at my wits end last Thursday.  My amazing husband took the baby to her room… And I fell asleep.  Then I woke up at 3 am panicked because the baby wasn’t next to me and she wasn’t crying.  She was asleep in her bed.

He says, “I want credit for this when you write about it on your blog.”  Credit where credit is due… He’s pretty awesome.

I woke her up at 6:30 to nurse.  Then she went back to sleep.  Too good to be true, right?  Nope.  We’ve been blessed beyond measure with this baby!



Friday night I let her fall asleep in my bed, then I moved her to her room.  Wrong.  Apparently she’s fine as long add she falls asleep in her room.  But if she is put there, already sleeping, she wakes up a few hours later.

I’ve been putting her to bed awake every night since then and it’s been a dream.  I get her up every morning to feed her and she falls back to sleep before her brother gets up for school.

I’m a huge fan of cosleeping.  But I think we’re both sleeping better now…especially because she doesn’t wake up to nurse at all when she’s in her room, but in my room she nursed every few hours.

We still get our morning snuggle-time.  I can’t believe how fast they grow!!





Spring Break Update

Spring semesters are always hectic for me.  It’s great that I work in the education field, like my husband, so I get holidays when my kids (and husband) are home.  It’s convenient to have the summers off with them and to always have weekends free.  It’s nice to get a long break over Christmas to travel and spend time with family.  It’s even better that my semesters are shorter than the public school system’s so I have a few weeks to myself each semester.

But, it also means that I cannot find a routine that always works for me.  One thing works when everyone is in school and not when they are home.  Another thing works in the fall when I’m only tutoring but not in the spring when I’m also teaching.  It’s a constant battle for me to adjust to housekeeping and working and mothering and being a wife and taking care of myself all at the same time.

I had a pretty nice routine established before Christmas.  Yes, the house was more than a little messy, but I was more forgiving because the baby and I spent a lot of time nursing and sleeping.

I’m working more than twice as many hours this semester and Chris is coaching (read:  gone most nights until 7 pm or later).  I’m not adjusting well.



So, instead of deep cleaning and freezer cooking this year during spring break, I’m doing something a little different.  I’m focusing on homemaking instead of housekeeping.

I used to think they were the same.  They aren’t.  I struggle to keep my house clean.  I am stressed and overwhelmed when my house is unkept.

But, that is because my house is just a house in my eyes.  A never ending chore.  Decor collecting dust.  Spots that need scrubbed.  Carpets that need vacuumed.  Piles that need decluttered.

This week, I stopped housekeeping and started homemaking.  I’m trying to see this place as the foundation of my family, a place where they want to come home to. I bought pretty curtains for a room we had been neglecting.  We bought a new end table that opens up to hide Landon’s small toys from Raegan.  I put a fresh table cloth on the dining room table.  I bought fresh flowers and put vases in several rooms.  And I’m making a honey-do list that is a mile long-  pulling up carpet, painting old panelling, installing vents to heat the second floor, refinishing old kitchen cabinets, moving the range, installing a new doorbell, refinishing the dining room set, enclosing the first-floor bathroom, painting the basement floor and walls, installing more lighting in the basement, installing an attic ceiling, painting all the bedrooms, rearranging the master bedroom, painting the kitchen… and on and on.

Somehow in the process of decorating and rearranging my house ends up clean anyway.  🙂 and I’m more excited about the projects than stressed about the chores.


For the first time, ever, I can sit in the living room with the TV off, just soaking up the sun from a nearby window and listening to the sounds of this old house.

Hopefully I can keep the house at a tolerable level until May when my summer break begins.

Until then posts from me will be sporadic because cooking and cleaning will be sporadic. But know that we are all well and doing our best to soak up the moments we have together as a young family.

On a side note, I’m posting this from my new phone…so maybe I will be able to post more often “on the go”.

time management

Time Savers: Clean Your Car

I lived in my car while I was in college.  I didn’t sleep there… but I could have.  I had my books, my purse, a change of clothes, the diaper bag, toys, mail, some food scraps, countless cans of soda and water bottles…  all readily available in my car.  Did I mention I drove a compact?  It wasn’t a pretty sight.

I have friends who clean (vacuum and wash) their cars weekly.  I wish I had the time or the dedication to do that.  My poor car is well-loved, and well-used.  It can get a little unruly.

We get to the bus stop 10 minutes early every day (because the bus has been known to be super early occasionally).  Once a week, I make an effort to tidy up while we wait.

  • I bag the trash that has accumulated on the floor (tissues, fast food bags, old papers).
  • I dust the dash and console with a dusting brush I got at the Dollar Store.
  • I straighten up the trunk (stroller, diaper bag, hidden Christmas gifts…).

It takes me about 5 minutes and my car would thank me for it if she could.